New York Times Best Seller
You and Me Forever
Marriage in Light of Eternity
Francis and Lisa Chan
BUYDONATESince we self-published the book, buying from this site generates the most money for our projects. Furthermore, only here will you find bulk discounts.

Marriage is great, but it’s not forever. It’s until death do us part. Then come eternal rewards or regrets depending on how we spent our lives.

In his latest book, Francis Chan and his wife Lisa address the question that many couples wonder at the altar: “How do I have a great marriage?” Setting aside typical topics on marriage, Francis and Lisa dive into Scripture to understand what it means to have a relationship that satisfies the deepest parts of our souls.

In the same way Crazy Love changed the way we saw our personal relationship with God, You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity will radically shift the way we see one of the most important relationships in our life.

Jesus was right. We have it all backwards. The way to have a great marriage is by not focusing on marriage.

Whether you are single, dating or married, You and Me Forever will help you discover the adventure that you were made for ­­and learn how to thrive in it.

100% of the net proceeds from You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity will go towards various ministries that include providing food, shelter and rehabilitation for thousands of orphaned children and exploited women around the world​. We would love to raise $5 million, so please support the work now by ordering your own copy here or by donating directly to the project fund.

This is a grassroots movement.

We are a self-publishing team of volunteers working to market and launch this book project because 100% of the net proceeds will go towards providing food, shelter, and rehabilitation for suffering people around the world. If you feel led to partner with us, here are a few ways we would love for you to help:

Review the book:
Have you finished reading You and Me Forever? Please help spread the word by reviewing the book on Amazon. You can do so here:

Share on social media:
Please blog, tweet, and post on Facebook about the book. Here’s a sample:

#FrancisChan and his wife Lisa just released a new book on marriage and heaven. Watch the @youandmeforever trailer:

Francis Chan and his wife Lisa Chan just released a new book on marriage and heaven. Watch the You and Me Forever trailer:

Get your church/ministry involved:
Make an announcement about the book in your community, church, or organization and share your excitement for the book on social media. Also, the study guide is now available! You order books and workbooks in bulk at the Crazy Love Ministries Store. Also, consider donating directly to the projects.

Tell your friends:
We want to invite you into this missional cause to see what God can do when we collectively love and serve those in the most desperate and broken parts of the world. Whether you are a blogger, artist, church leader or mom, we need your help getting the word out to as many people as possible. Start discussion groups around the book content. Communicate the mission, vision, and story of this project to people.

For more information or specific questions, please contact

Somewhere along the way, we realized that this book would be more than a book.

To celebrate their 20th anniversary Francis and Lisa decided to serve at a village in Africa that one of their friends started. This body of believers had been building a village to feed children dying of starvation, liberate women trapped in prostitution, and give hope and opportunity to a community ravished by poverty. Moved by what God was doing there for the poor, Francis and Lisa wanted to bless the ministry to double or triple its impact.

With another book already in motion, this time written together by Francis and Lisa, they saw an opportunity to use the book as a way to support the work in places like this village in Africa. They decided to self-publish with a team of volunteers to generate as much money possible to give away.

100% of net profits from each book sold goes straight to this vision. We would love to raise $5 million to feed the hungry, free women from prostitution and spread the gospel to unreached places. But we can't do it alone and that's why we need your help.

All net proceeds are being directed to Crazy Love Ministries, a 501(c)3 registered in the state of California, and then are dispersed from there to several previously-selected partners for the book. Stay tuned for updates around impact and hope made from people like you. Support the work now by ordering your own copy here or by donating directly to the project fund.

Here are some of the more popular questions we’ve been getting:

Are the study guides available yet?

Yes! Click the "BUY STUDY GUIDE" button at the top of the page.

I already have a book. How else can I contribute to the $5 million goal?

You can donate directly to our projects by clicking the "DONATE" button at the top of the page. Also, consider ordering books and study guides for friends!

Is there special bulk pricing?

Yes! All bulk orders are handled by Crazy Love Ministries staff, so the current bulk options can be found by clicking the "BULK PRICING" button at the top of the page.

If you still have questions, please contact for details.

What about international shipping?

While we don’t ship internationally from our site, you can place an order with Amazon who has additional shipping options (including international): Click here to order from Amazon.

Where else is the book available?

You and Me Forever is available most places where Francis Chan’s books are sold, including Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Family Christian Stores, Lifeway, Mardel, and many others. Please check with your local book retailer, and if it’s not there… ask! But at the same time, know that books ordered off this site generate about $4 more each for the project than those bought elsewhere.

What is the plan for releasing You and Me Forever in other languages?

At this time You and Me Forever is only available in English. We are currently developing our international strategy and will share updates when we have them.

Is there an ebook?

Yes! The e-book is available for download at Amazon, Nook, Kobo and Google.

What if I can’t afford to buy You and Me Forever, but I really want to read it?

Part of the reason why Francis and Lisa decided to publish independently was so they could bless others with the book who couldn’t afford it. To download a free PDF, please click here: Download PDF.

To go along with the book, Francis and Lisa recorded some fun and creative videos that help tell the story. Watch and share the following videos:

The Chans

A look into the life of the Chan's as they try to live missionally.

Rethinking Marriage

Three marriage stories that will make you rethink everything.

Ride It Out Together

A fun (and funny) music video written and performed by Francis and Lisa. You have to watch!


Here is Margaret and Daniel's story of love through all things

To go along with the book, Francis and Lisa recorded a seven week video study series on You and Me Forever: