You and Me Forever

by Francis and Lisa Chan

Book Videos Study Impact FAQ

Marriage is great, but it’s not forever. It’s until death do us part. Then come eternal rewards or regrets depending on how we spent our lives.

In his latest book, Francis Chan and his wife Lisa address the question that many couples wonder at the altar: “How do I have a great marriage?” Setting aside typical topics on marriage, Francis and Lisa dive into Scripture to understand what it means to have a relationship that satisfies the deepest parts of our souls.

In the same way Crazy Love changed the way we saw our personal relationship with God, You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity will radically shift the way we see one of the most important relationships in our life.

Jesus was right. We have it all backwards. The way to have a great marriage is to not focus on marriage.

Whether you are single, dating or married, You and Me Forever will help you discover the adventure that you were made for ­­and learn how to thrive in it.

100% of the net proceeds from You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity will go towards various ministries that include providing food, shelter and rehabilitation for thousands of orphaned children and exploited women around the world​. We would love to raise $5 million, so please support the work now by ordering your own copy or by donating directly to the project fund.

Behind the Book

The story behind the book.

The Chans

A look into the life of the Chans as they try to live missionally.

You and Me Forever

Three marriage stories that will make you rethink everything.

Ride It Out Together

A fun music video written and performed by Francis and Lisa. You have to watch!

Blind Devotion

A short film about the beauty of unconditional love.


Margaret and Daniel's story of love through all things.

To go along with the book, Francis and Lisa recorded a seven week video study series.

Message to the Leaders

Session 1

Session 2

Session 3

Session 4

Session 5

Session 6

Session 7

Somewhere along the way, we realized that this book would be more than a book.

To celebrate their 20th anniversary Francis and Lisa decided to serve at a village in Africa that one of their friends started. This body of believers had been building a village to feed children dying of starvation, liberate women trapped in prostitution, and give hope and opportunity to a community ravished by poverty. Moved by what God was doing there for the poor, Francis and Lisa wanted to bless the ministry to double or triple its impact.

With another book already in motion, this time written together by Francis and Lisa, they saw an opportunity to use the book as a way to support the work in places like this village in Africa. They decided to self-publish with a team of volunteers to generate as much money possible to give away.

100% of net profits from each book sold goes straight to this vision. We would love to raise $5 million to feed the hungry, free women from prostitution and spread the gospel to unreached places. But we can't do it alone and that's why we need your help.

All net proceeds are being directed to Crazy Love Ministries, a 501(c)3 registered in the state of California, and then are dispersed from there to several previously-selected partners for the book. Stay tuned for updates around impact and hope made from people like you. Support the work now by ordering your own copy or by donating directly to the project fund.

Are the study guides available yet?

Yes! They're in the store.

I already have a book. How else can I contribute to the $5 million goal?

You can donate directly to our projects by clicking the "DONATE" button at the top of the page. Also, consider ordering books and study guides for friends!

Is there special bulk pricing?

Yes! All bulk orders are handled by Crazy Love Ministries staff, so the current bulk options can be found by clicking the "BULK PRICING" button at the top of the page.

If you still have questions, please contact for details.

What about international shipping?

While we don’t ship internationally from our site, you can place an order with Amazon who has additional shipping options (including international): Click here to order from Amazon.

Where else is the book available?

You and Me Forever is available most places where Francis Chan’s books are sold, including Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Family Christian Stores, Lifeway, Mardel, and many others. Please check with your local book retailer, and if it’s not there… ask! But at the same time, know that books ordered off this site generate about $4 more each for the project than those bought elsewhere.

What is the plan for releasing You and Me Forever in other languages?

At this time You and Me Forever is only available in English. We are currently developing our international strategy and will share updates when we have them.

Is there an e-book?

Yes! The e-book is available for download at Amazon, Nook, Kobo and Google.

What if I can’t afford to buy You and Me Forever, but I really want to read it?

Part of the reason why Francis and Lisa decided to publish independently was so they could bless others with the book who couldn’t afford it. To download a free PDF, please click here: Download PDF.